We Need the Reminders

“Be strong and courageous!
Don’t tremble or be terrified,
Because the Lord your God is with you
wherever you go.”
Joshua 1:6, 9, 18

Moses was dead. And now, Joshua had some incredibly worn sandals to fill. He was
literally stepping into a leadership role like none other. God’s People were still enroute
to their Promised Land, but now without their great leader. Was he the right man for the
job? Would this traveling nation – God’s chosen people – be able to follow this new
leader? Could he be trusted to hear God’s Voice as Moses had?

How might Joshua have felt as he stepped into his new, history-making responsibility of
bringing God’s People into their historic Homeland, and all the unknowns that were
ahead. He was stepping into some incredibly respected sandals, heading into a Land
that God had Promised them. . . but they had not yet experienced.

Sometimes we, too, experience a life-change that we’ve not lived before. We do not
know what lies ahead, and we do not have control. We can plan . . . we can research,
try to gather as much information to prepare us for this new step in life. But ultimately,
we have to put our hand into His and trust Him.

God’s people had history in the Land of Israel. But they had been in Egypt for a long,
long time. What lay ahead? They had some information, but none of them had first-
hand experience of the realities of the Homeland of their history.

Joshua gives us a glimpse of the condition of his people as they neared the Land of
their history. “Don’t tremble. Don’t be terrified. . . “ Joshua knew his people. And it
seems that they were a “hot mess” as they neared their final destination. Imagine a
whole nation “trembling” and “terrified!” Have you ever experienced that kind of mass
emotional melt-down all at the same time? Together? These are not merely internal
emotions . . . there was physical, visible terror being experienced on a national level!

Joshua had no military defense to surround them. There was no “back-up plan” for the
people. They were going into the “unknown” with no military protection or power. Men,
women, children, elderly, handicapped, etc. . . Refugees who had been surviving in thedesert for a long, long time. They knew the stories, . . . the history. But they had only
the reports of the few “spies” who had gone ahead to get a glimpse of the Land that
God had promised them. The Land of their history. The Land of their future.

As we today follow the Footsteps of Jesus on this earth. . . as we look to His
Promises… hold to His Hand as we walk through our life on this earth, we are aware
that this is not our eternal Home. It’s our “for now” . . . but He gives us glimpses of the
“forever Home” that awaits ahead. So we stay close . . . holding tightly and following
His lead, with the assurance that He is right here with us, and trustworthy to bring us
safely to our Final Destination. All that matters is that He Will Be There.

Easy to Say

“Do you love Me?”… Jesus asked.
“Feed My sheep.”
John 21:17

Peter and Jesus were having a face – to – Face Moment. And Jesus was asking
Peter a very “simple” question. Four simple words. But Peter’s responses were not
what Jesus had been looking for.

Jesus was putting Peter “on the spot.” Four simple words. But Peter was having an
uncomfortable Moment with his response. He was not sure what Jesus was looking
for. He could have said many things, . . . easily coming up with a list of ways he had
served and followed Jesus in the past few years they had shared.

Peter had been following Jesus through years of ministry. . . the horrible experience of
His crucifixion, . . . the incredible experience of Jesus’ resurrection and the ripple effects
of that event. Peter was still with Jesus, despite his human failures through those days.
So what was Jesus getting at in his repeated question to Peter? “Do you love Me? …
Feed My sheep?” Was he thinking….Of course I love you! I’m here. I’m still following
You. . . But I’m a fisherman. I catch fish. I’m not a shepherd! I’ve never taken care of
sheep. Fish don’t need “care”. I just have to get in the water and throw out my nets. . .
and that’s it! Are you asking me to change the whole focus of my life? My way of
providing for my family? Walk away from the sea where I’ve spent my life for my
family?

Jesus disrupts our lives. He doesn’t look at our human “norms” as we do. His Plans
cannot be dictated by ours. His focus is on those He came to save. Those who are
lost. Those who have never known the Goodness of God. . . His Love . . . His Hope . . .
.
The fisherman did not “take care of his fish.” He simply used them for his own food and
as provision for others.

But sheep . . . now that’s a whole different ball-game. You don’t “catch sheep.” It’s a lot
of work and time and commitment to care for sheep. You can’t trust them. They can’t
defend themselves. They’re “kinda dumb” when it comes to good choices of avoiding
danger. It requires the life of the shepherd. . . day and night. 24 / 7.

“Do you love Me?” A simple question. Four little words.
But living out the answer. . . that is a life commitment that lasts a lifetime.

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Finding “The Right One”

Isaac and Rebecca
Genesis 24

Isaac was the “apple of his father’s (and mother’s) eyes.” He was a “miracle baby,” and it was
time for him to find the wife of his dreams. In those times, the parents of a young man and
young woman made the match. So Abraham had sent his trusted servant to the city where an appropriate future bride could be found. Abraham’s servant saw her, and gave her a little “test.”

He asked “the young lady of interest” to give him a drink of water, testing her reaction. (Drawing water for one’s household from a spring outside of the city is no small task. She would have to carry the water into the city and to her home.) The detail of collecting the water from the spring and into a jar for a household adds an even more challenging reality.
Rebecca was quick to respond, not only giving the male servant a drink of water, but offering to water all of his camels as well.

This would have been a daunting task for the male owner of the camels, but for a single young woman, it’s an enormous amount of heavy work. She had come to the spring for the sake of her own family’s needs, most likely. We don’t know how much nor how taxing that effort would have been for a young girl. The water pots alone were heavy, but filled with water, it would not be an easy mission. A camel can consume 32 gallons of water in a short amount of time. Add the detail of this being a young girl offering to provide water for a stranger’s camels, and it becomes even more of an exceptional, strenuous task. After helping the stranger, she would still have to accomplish the task for which she had come. . . adding distance to her task from the well to her home inside the city walls.

Without being aware of this “test”, Rebecca passed it with flying colors.

The next day, she began her journey to a home, to a new family, and to a young man who was waiting for his hoped-for bride. God used the young girl and her servant’s heart, to be woven into a family and lineage that would become part of God’s Story for the world. She had not been looking for an “Isaac” to come into her life when she went to the well that day, met the stranger from a different land, and offered to meet his camels’ needs. But God knew her heart and chose to weave her into the Story and History of God’s Plan for mankind to know Him.

God’s heart for this world continues . . . and He still uses common people to touch the life of
another . . . even strangers . . . to continue to fulfill His Purposes and Plans in our world. Be
open each day to hear His quiet Whispers to do something kind for a stranger . . . to care . . . to set aside your agenda when He touches your heart to pause the task at hand and touch the life of a stranger. You can be sure that He is at work. . . always.

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Throwing Things

“Throw all your anxieties on Him because He cares for you.”
1 Peter 5:7

Somehow, “anxiety” and “throwing things” seem to have an impulsive connection with
humans. Can you relate? (Be honest.) When we experience realities that disrupt our
sense of “normal”, something inside of us is stirred in a way we don’t want to be stirred.
We instinctually want to get rid of what is upsetting us. The impulse to “throw
something” is a common human trait. It’s a tangible action that expresses the intangible
emotional impulse to push away the thing that is upsetting us.

God is well familiar with that human impulse. It is a natural response that He put into us
to help protect ourselves. But, as with all good things, there is a dark side lurking in
the shadows, whispering alternative methods to try to get rid of the anxiety stirring in our
minds and hearts.

Isn’t it interesting to see that God points out a connection between “anxieties” and
“throwing things” in the same sentence. But He doesn’t say “Do Not Throw!” Rather,
He gives us a constructive alternative outlet to handle anxiety, instead of the destructive
ways we instinctively choose in our quest to escape the anxiety that invades our sense
of peace and well-being.

Why would He do that, and not simply forbid us to have those feelings and natural
instincts?

Love.

And the Perfect Outlet He has provided for us in our human struggles is Himself. He
doesn’t even require that we tell Him nicely or politely or respectfully, or not at all. No!
He knows us too well! He knows our instinct to “throw” what we don’t want to feel or
experience.

So next time you feel like “throwing something” . . . picture your Heavenly Father
standing there with His Catcher’s Mitt, ready to grab it, safely and securely, in His Big
Hand that has never once dropped a “ball.”

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Missed Opportunities

And Regrets
“Rise . . . let us be going.”
Matthew 26:36-46

They had messed up. At a Moment when Jesus may have needed them most, they had gone. . . to sleep.

How do you process missed “Moments” that you wish you could go back to for a “re-do” . . .
rehearsing it again and again in your mind, thinking about the “what if’s” and “could have been, if I had only . . . “ scenarios of the past. Do you “kick yourself” . . . blame someone else . . . blame circumstances? Do you begin sinking into a sadness that becomes a shadow over your mind and life?

Jesus’ closest friends were with Him in a garden where He liked to spend time talking with His Father. He knew He was hours away from the events that would result in His death. But His dearest friends, at a time when He deeply needed their nearness, had fallen asleep. . . and He had struggled through those dark hours alone.

He did not shame or condemn them for letting Him down when He may have needed them
most. He struggled through His internal Battle alone, with His Father.

We all have our times of knowing that we have disappointed people we love. We have all failed people we love, and our hearts can begin to sink into regret that leads to despair.
But in this Moment when Jesus may have needed His closest friends most, they fell asleep.
Jesus could have shamed them or blamed them. He could have shown His disappointment in them. But their failure did not stop Him from the Purpose . . . pain . . . and deep sorrow that He faced. He struggled through those hours looking to His Father alone. And His commitment to and love for them did not change.

In the days . . . weeks . . . years ahead, His friends continued to follow Him, serve Him, and give their lives for Him.

We can choose to sink into regret and despair over our failures, especially regarding those we love most. But whatever the circumstances and regrets, Jesus stands with us . . . within us . . . stirring us out of our “sleep” and regrets, saying, “Come on . . . come with Me. This Story is not over yet, and I want you with Me. No matter what is ahead, no matter how you have failed Me . . . and as scary as it may feel, I AM With You. . . Always. So, Let’s go!”

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What Compels You?


“…The Love of Christ
compels me
because of this:
If One died for all, then all died;
and He died for all,
that those who live
no longer live for ourselves, but for Him Who died for them
and rose again.”
2 Corinthians 5:14-15

Compel: Evoke interest, attention, or admiration in a powerfully irresistible way.

I love the sense that the word “compel” gives to this verse. There is absolutely no sense of
force nor obligation nor pressure involved. Rather, there is a heart response that would be
challenging to harness. Your heart starts doing something that you can’t change. You cannot create it through imagination, or will, or self-talk. It is simply there. . . deep inside. It springs up through no action on your part. Rather, there is a reaction . . . a response to an action that deeply impacts your life.

The Love of Christ carries with it a Power like nothing else in this world. That Power can
change lives. . . change minds . . . change hearts . . . change motives . . . and the deepest
sense of Meaning and Purpose in a human being.

Consider how the Love of Christ has influenced your own life. What motivates you? What
compels you? What sense of Purpose comes to your mind when your day begins? What is the driving force for you to get out of bed and begin a new day? It’s only natural that the realities of life begin flooding our thoughts as soon as we begin to awaken each day. It’s human nature.

But God offers us an alternative Reality. . . one that has the Power to supersede the things of this world. He lets us choose. The Choice begins with our first waking thought, continuing throughout every day, until sleep comes. And even then, as our bodies rest, His Spirit is with us, at our invitation.

May the awareness of His Presence and Love become clearer and deeper, compelling us to
embrace the Truth of His Love and His Purpose for each of us.

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Holding Hands

“I, the Lord your God,
Hold your right hand
And say to you,
‘Don’t be afraid',
I will help you.”
Isaiah 41:13

Holding someone’s hand can signify a lot of things.  But the bottom line is that it presents an image of a personal connection.   A parent’s instinctual action when there is any sense of danger for a child.  In daily life it gives  a sense of unity in a circle of people . . . a sense of friendship . . . and a sense of intimacy with someone you love.  All those moments of holding the hand of another take on a more personal connection through that simple act.  

I remember my daddy and I walking on a busy city street in Chicago, with his big hand holding strongly to mine after a stranger had grabbed my little 3-year-old hand in a moving crowd of people.  I can only imagine what may have been the life-changing outcome of the dangerous scenario of one hand-holding situation if my father had not intervened and taken my little hand in his.

I also remember my first teenage “boy-friend” experience. . . a light touch of his hand on mine in a car.  No word, no eye-contact, but the touch made a lasting impact on my heart and mind … awakening an entirely new dimension of life than I had known.   

Our God, Whose Hands created the heavens and the earth, and formed each of us out of “nothing” tells you and me that He is holding my right hand in His.  Whether He is holding my right hand in His Right Hand, or whether He is holding my right hand in His Left Hand is not specified.  My right hand in His Right Hand would logically require a face-to-face position. . . a Right Hand to left hand would be side-by-side.  What I love about this is that no matter which hand-to-Hand position it is, there is a beautiful image created of God’s nearness and personal connection to you and me.  Whether Side-by-side or Face-to face, the relational connection is there.  

Of all the ways God uses His Hands, and all of the ways He can use ours, it is this image of God that touches my heart most deeply.  

May my hand be an extension of His in my world. . . 

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Even When . . . 

“God is our refuge and strength,
An ever present Help in times of trouble.
That is why we are not afraid
Even when . . . “
Psalm 46:1-2…

  Our Refuge . . . a safe place, a shelter, a top priority in the heart of anyone in danger,

the singular focus of a heart full of fear.

Our Help . . . . . .the uppermost thoughts of a person who has found a refuge, and 

                           desperately wants to see the “trouble” fixed.

I don’t know anyone who has not had a Moment in life that caused a fear and panic in their mind and heart.  It’s a  part of the realities  in a fallen world. . . a world that globally lives with God’s Presence not in the forefront of their consciousness.  In the midst of our troubles, we tend to try to fix them as soon as possible.  We come up with ideas. . . we try to change situations . . . we try to ignore a problem . . . we lash out at the perceived “cause” of the trouble . . . and on and on.

David, the writer of this Psalm, certainly experienced that longing for safety and help.  He faced many, often extreme dangers throughout his life.  Physical, emotional, mental, and relational realities over which he had little to no control were frequently part of his experience.  But, from the time he was a young boy, responsible for his daddy’s flocks of sheep, he learned where to turn for help.  He learned To Whom he could turn, no matter what fears he encountered.  His early real-life “even when’s” were often wild predators of his sheep. His flock’s needs for food, water, and safety were constant.   His defenseless (and not very bright) wooly charges, as well as his own emotional, physical, and psychological well-being as he shouldered his responsibilities must have been quite overwhelming for young David.

When we humans initially encounter danger,  whether real or percieved, we tend to head for safety. . . escape.  Fear is often the first emotion. . . we don’t choose or think about it.  It’s simply there. . . a human instinct meant to help us survive.  But we all know that even good things can trip us up when we forget God’s abiding Presence in our hearts and minds.

One of our best reminders of that Truth are the “even when’s” along our paths.  

May the “even when” become the solid stepping-stones along your Journey . . . Home.

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Knowing Who You Are

“Those who are not My People, 
I will call, ‘My People.'
Those who are not loved,
I will call, ‘My loved ones.’
Wherever they were told 
‘You are not My people,’
They will be called,
‘Children of the Living God.’”
Romans 9:25-26
(Paul quoting from Hosea)

“Identity” is important.  It matters to every human being everywhere in the world.  God started that, when He created the first human beings . . . a man and a woman.  They had hardly begun breathing when God announced their human identities and gave them names.

New parents deliberate over the decision of what name to give their new child.  It’s one of the most important identifiers of a human being.  A name sets you apart from the rest of the group. . . a part of your one-of-a-kind uniqueness.  Your name becomes part of the history of a family . . . a lineage.  It’s a global reality.  And God started it at the very Beginning.

This world has a tendency to mess with our identities. . . whether with our own perceptions of our true selves, or the perceptions of other people regarding who we truly are as human beings.  It’s an old Story . . . going all the way back to “The Beginning.”  We begin, over time, to lose sight of who we truly are.  Especially who we truly are to God.

We need to stop sometimes, and simply come back to the basics of who am I. . . really?

Not who others think I am.  Not who I’ve become in my world. . . through effort or through life’s impact on me. . . whether good or bad.

The world will pull us away from the “me” that God created. . . as well as the path He had planned for us . . . individually as well as collectively.

God’s tender reminder, true in ancient times (Hosea’s words), as well as in Jesus’ earthly time (through Paul’s reminder,) continues to be true in our time.

The Living God continues to remind us of the core Truth of who we truly, uniquely are, especially in relation to Him directly and personally.  Those ancient Words . . . simple. . . arresting . . . . and true.  It’s who you are.

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Setting the Stage for Him

“He has told me,
‘My Grace is all you need, because my power is perfected in weakness.’ 
Therefore, I will most happily boast about my weaknesses, 
so that the Messiah’s power may rest on me.”    
2 Corinthians 12:9

I am now in a sixth decade of my faith journey with Jesus. I have a fairly extensive perspective and experience in church life and the way “church” has slowly evolved over the past half-century.   My earliest memories of “church” are of a rather humble space, with a pulpit and an old upright piano with several keys missing, some hymn books to share, and the pastor/greeter/song-leader/announcement-giver/daddy(all one and the same….including janitorial clean-up afterwards).  

I don’t miss those days, but I do miss some of the simplicity and authenticity that was inescapably present, whether welcome or not.  

Today’s “church” experience now commonly includes a stage, musicians, lighting effects, clear sound-system quality of everything unfolding on the stage,  and visual displays that not only help the congregation easily engage, but people, via media in their own homes can participate in what is happening on stage.  Technology, artistry, visual effects, talented musicians and speakers are all part of the stage experience. 

And in the majority of churches, the stage is set for the purpose of presenting Jesus.

Paul shares a perspective that seems incongruent to most of our experience.  Paul knew well the “higher-level” things of life.  Power.  Authority.  Fame.  Influence was his.  Paul had held a powerful position in the eyes of his own people, as well as in the eyes of the Roman Empire that ruled his nation of Israel.

The “Stage” in Paul’s message became “Weakness.”  Paul himself was that “Stage” upon which Jesus had stepped . . . as “Center Stage” of Paul’s life.  (Remember, Paul had literally fallen off his stage (and horse) at the height of his fame and power.)

God’s Power became Paul’s new reflective identity.  Laying flat on his face in the dirt, blinded and unable to do anything about it, Paul had his “Moment of Truth” with Jesus, in a very personal way.  His previous “M.O.” dissolved.  His “Stage” became dust.  What “was” . . . was no more.  His new “Stage” was a life of total submission to Him.

And that is the Favorite Stage upon which Jesus Himself chooses to step into the Spotlight. . . for a watching, waiting world to experience the “ONE and ONLY” . . . 

Light of the World.

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