Are You About to Snap?

“A cord of three strands is not easily broken.”
Ecclesiastiastics 4:12

My maternal grandmother was “high-strung,” we called it. She was tiny in stature, very attuned to what was going on, and keenly aware of the Bible’s guidelines for living. She was often “wringing her hands” as she observed daily activities of her family. I can’t say that I hoped to be like her some day, but I am grateful for her influence of always having her Bible open on the kitchen table, and her commitment to reading passages throughout her day.

The Wisdom woven throughout the Book of Ecclesiastics is worthy of pondering . . . nugget by nugget. Practical, Godly Wisdom is as true in our daily lives now as it was in ancient times. People walk through Life now, encountering its complex realities with the same questions, longings and needs for Purpose as has always been part of our humanity.

Our greatest quandary is often our personal desire for a clear sense of Purpose. Our world
screams to us with a flood of options available . . . both good and bad. We “walk a tightrope of choices” each day, with lots of voices advising us of what we should choose.

The writer of Ecclesiastics gives us a practical word picture to help us “untangle” this quandary. A good rope is not a single strand of fiber. There is not enough strength in one strand. It could snap, and whatever it was holding would quickly succumb to gravity and its own weight and immediately fall to the ground. A rope of two strands is better, but still quite at risk of soon snapping if the only other strand breaks. I recently read an article of a discovery unearthed dating back to “neandrathol” times of a rope that clearly had three distinct cords of wooden fibers wound together and still identifiable.

A cord of three strands has a far better chance of holding the weight of its task and completing it. Sharing the weight between three cords woven together has far more strength and longevity as the three share the pressure equally.

Our human nature . . . and pride . . . leans toward “doing it myself.” That is more of a child-like
approach. “No! I do myself!” is something most mothers encounter with their little ones. We
may give them the chance to “do it myself” . . . but often need to step in to rescue the situation.

God knows that part of our nature. He knows how quickly a single strand can snap. He knows that two strands together adds a better chance of succeeding in the task at hand.

And He Himself works with the number “3.” The God-head . . . 3-in-One . . . is the Model He set for us, and offers us as we walk through this earthly life. Three-in-One. Trinity. And He has made it possible for us to hold on to Him . . . daily, and throughout our time on earth. He has also put additional Believers in our lives to walk this Path together.

When life seems to be falling apart . . . all tangled up . . . you’re at the “end of your rope” . . .
Look Up! Grab on! Hold tightly to the hand of a fellow-Believer, and , most of all, to the scarred Hand that Holds You in His Palm . . . and continue on the Journey together.

“Behold! He Comes with Clouds…Rev. 1:7

What do you think of when you look at clouds?  I would imagine that every one of us would have a different answer to that question.  After all, there are no two clouds alike, anywhere in the world.  There is nothing tangible to reach out and grasp. . . nothing permanent in their movements . . . and yet, everywhere on earth they exist.  We can see them, so we know that they truly exist, and can experience the tangible rains they hold.   Yet there is nothing that can contain, manage, nor control them.  

Clouds exist everywhere in the world.  And the human perspectives of clouds can change countless times  each day, never to be repeated exactly anywhere else.

The Bible has many stories that involve clouds, and they are often mentioned in connection with God Himself.  I wonder if there is any human throughout Time that did not wonder . . . wish . . . imagine . . . and perhaps fear  being in His Presence.

The Apostle John saw and wrote about his experience of “seeing” Him.  And he wrote about what he saw.  “He comes with clouds,” was very clear to him near the very beginning of John’s writings of his experience.

I have pondered John’s words, and I think of it two different ways.  I’m sure there are countless ways to think of what John described.  That’s part of God’s Word being “living and active” . . . no one can ever “nail it” because of that living, active reality that God’s Word contains.  

But I’ll share the three top thoughts that have been floating around in my mind and heart as I have meditated on this in the past several months.  

“Behold !. . . He comes with clouds. . “

#l.   Literally, I love to look up into the sky on a day that has clouds, and try to take note of their shapes, “fluffiness”, whispyness (is that a word?), how they’re moving, what shapes my mind can “see” as they hang or float in the bue sky, what direction they are moving.   Do they look like rain clouds?  Are they dark? Threatening some harsh storm?

When I’m in a plane and we fly through a cloud,  then break through to blue sky, there’s a lot more emotion tied to the view. . . nervousness, curiosity, physical bumps that jar me to pray . . . lovely surprises as the clouds part and reveal a whole different world than the place where I live.  Clouds draw me to “look” . . . enjoy, imagine, wonder, what it will be like when we see Him coming in the clouds.

As I have shared my life with God, a decision I made when I was 3 years old, I have carried a clear sense of His real-ness, His awareness of me…all the good and bad in my heart and mind, yet with a certainty that He was near me through it all.  Many seasons in my life I would sense that I was under a “cloud”, as turbulent times, sadness, 

pain, loss, betrayal, and grief flowed through my “sky” as well as the seasons of joy, wonder, love, sweetness and a front-row seat of watching Him work, when the clouds had parted and His Warmth and Light helped to brighten my heart and life.

God’s Clouds give us a glimpse of Who He is . . . bringing Light, Life-giving Water, Shelter from the scorching heat of life.  Clouds bring  beauty that draws our eyes UP . . . to Him . . . not able to hold Him in our hands, but we can see Him moving, drink in the pure Water of Life that flows from Him,  and simply stand in His Presence as He pours down showers of blessing from His endless Source of Life. 

The next time you see clouds, take a moment to consider Revelation 1:7.  He comes with clouds . . . never in exactly the same form . . . but wrapped in that beautiful reminder of Him as our eyes are drawn upward.

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The Greatest Treasure for The Two-Legged Flock (aka: Us!)

(32)Do not be afraid or anxious, little flock, 
For it is your Father’s good pleasure
To give you the Kingdom.”
33)Sell your possessions and give to the poor, (show compassion).
Provide money belts for yourselves that do not wear out, an unfailing and inexhaustible Treasure in Heaven, where no thief comes near and no moth destroys.
(34) For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.”
Luke 12:32-34

Jesus had such a gentle way of saying things that would completely up-end a person’s life.  Luke describes this “teaching time” with Jesus.  The Good Shepherd was talking with his closest friends . . . many of whom were fishermen.

“Do not be afraid or anxious, little flock, for it is your Father’s good pleasure to give you the Kingdom.”   

Wow!  He begins with such soothing, reassuring words.  Encouraging words!  Words full of hope and great promise.  Their minds were probably beginning to imagine life in a Kingdom in Heaven and all that God was going to give them!  Imagine!!!  Jesus knew about the fears and anxieties that often filled their minds and hearts as they followed Him each day.  There were lots of practical responsibilities they had left behind in order to follow Him.  It had not been easy, comfortable, profitable, and often hard!

Now, finally!  He is saying that Father God was going to give them the Kingdom!!!   Jesus had spoken often of His Father’s Kingdom . . . the Heavenly Home from which He had come.  Has their time finally come?

Did their hearts quicken in suspense?  Were they already beginning to imagine themselves and their loved ones together there . . . with Jesus?  Forever living in God’s glorious, beautiful, eternal Kingdom!

Then, Jesus’ next Words probably felt like a bombshell going off. 

  • “Sell your possessions and give to the poor.”   OK…we won’t need our possessions, because we’re going to have a Kingdom…
  • “Provide money belts for yourselves that do not wear out, an unfailing and inexhaustible treasure in Heaven, where no thief comes near and no moth destroys.”    So, God’s provisions for us will never run out or be ruined. . . Whatever He will give us is going to last, forever!
  • For where your treasure is, your heart will be also.’   OK…this Treasure is something that is going to continue on . . . with no end.  That’s unlike anything that exists in my world.  It’s in my heart. . . inside of me . . .forever! 

This may not have been what Jesus’ group of friends were hoping for or expecting.  Jesus was not promising tangible benefits from this world.  Those things will not last.  Jesus was inviting his friends to experience a far greater Treasure, beyond anything that this world can give.  

His Kingdom and all of its Treasures await.  Not in this world, but in God’s Kingdom, where we will spend Eternity with Him  . . . in His Kingdom that will never end.    

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 Bird Brains


“Consider the birds, for they neither sow [seed] nor reap [the crop];
They have no storehouse nor barn,
Yet, God feeds them.
How much more valuable are you than the birds!
Luke 12:24

Growing up, I would often hear my dad say something like, “What kind of bird-brain came up with that idea?!”  He would also mutter that term about himself when he couldn’t figure something out. Birds have very tiny brains that share the space with the other tiny organs of their tiny bodies.

I thought of those terms as I contemplated the Words of Jesus as He was speaking to His followers.  They were men who carried family responsibilities of providing for their families’ practical needs. . . typically not only their own nuclear family, but for their aging parents as well. 

Daily life at that time was much more challenging as far as practical needs.  No Kwik-Trip, or conveniences like refrigerators or freezers.  To “run” to the market was probably literal…on foot. . . and not all in one shop.  It took time, effort, energy, and physical work to feed a family.  Nor did they have any paychecks to send home, where often three generations shared the space. 

The disciples had those kinds of personal responsibilities as the heads of their household.  Jesus had asked each of them to “follow Him” . . .  So they had left their families quite often and for stretches of time, knowing that their families were dealing with all of those daily needs, but without the presence of their father and husband.  It had to be stressful.  Not only for their own personal needs, but also for the needs of their families.  

But they had chosen to follow Jesus . . . period.

Jesus knew well the responsibilities each of His team carried before He had called them to follow Him.  He knew what realities and stress they faced in choosing to follow Him.  There is no condemnation nor frustration expressed . . . only a caring reminder of their great value to God.  If God sees and cares for those tiny little birds that flit through their tiny, short lives on earth, how much greater is God’s moment-by-moment awareness and care for us. . . the humans for whom He had come to save, and share Eternity.

And what a sweet reminder we have of His Love and Compassion . . . and Provision for us as we daily choose to follow Him.

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A Song in the Night??

“I call to remembrance 
my Song in the night.
I commune with my own heart;
And my spirit made
diligent search.”
Psalm 77:6

A beautiful starry night . . . a gentle whisper of air coming through my window as I lay in the soft darkness of my bedroom.  My favorite, gentle instrumental music played quietly near my bed.  Peaceful slumber was near as I felt the cares of the day fade into the shadows.

And then I heard him.   His very abrasive little voice pierced the moment.  It was the large toad that apparently preferred to locate himself near the shelter of the small bush outside of my window to anywhere else this night.  As I surrendered my dreamy little Moment of welcome rest, I quietly mumbled to the unseen voice on the other side of my screen window.  His croaky, disruptive voice was clearly planted right in the shelter of the low evergreen branches below my window.  I could picture his beady eyes looking towards my window.  We’d had several “encounters” in the past few weeks…startling, but a chuckle-worthy moment each time.  

As I tried to return to my disrupted sense of slumber and the gentle music wafting on the soft breeze, my new little “buddy” continued to add his scratchy, distinctive croak to the atmosphere.  He had apparently settled there now, and I just tried to appreciate his little inserted “notes” into my lovely bedtime melodies.  

And I wondered . . . God’s Presence, throughout which the Music of Heaven is woven always,  . . . does God smile as we add our earthly croaks to His perfect Melodies as we walk . . .stumble . . . hop . . .through the days and nights of our lives with Him?  Do we join the Chorus of Heaven in praise to Him?  When He hears our scratchy, humanly-flawed efforts as we sing to Him, does He smile?  He gives us “A Song in the Night” of our lives . . . His Song.  We can never match it, but He still invites us to join the Melody He is writing in and through us.  

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It Never Gets Old

“God is our refuge and strength,
an ever-present help in times of trouble.
That is why we are not afraid
even when the earth quakes
or the mountains topple
into the depths of the sea.
Water roars and foams,
and mountains shake at the surging waves.
There is a River whose streams bring Joy. . .”

Psalm 46:1-4

The words of this ancient song of David continue to echo throughout the ages, still as true and relevant to us as when they were first uttered. As a very little girl, I learned these words of David from my mom and dad. “God is my wefuge and stwenth, an evo-pwesent hewp in times of twuble.” As those ancient words sunk into my little mind, they took on deeper meaning as I grew throughout my youth and its “highs and lows” of those years. As I walked through the years of early adulthood, with relationships, turmoils, challenges, and love, His Words were woven throughout the fabric of that season of life. Marriage . . . three little boys . . . full-time ministry to troubled youth which eventually grew into a “mega-church” . . . that River continued to flow.

Then came the decades of serving and loving my muslim refugee nation in the Desert of North Africa. . . that River wound its way throughout all of the harshness of the desert, bringing a stream of Living Water that took on an entirely new meaning than I had ever tasted before. I had a firsthand view of seeing the Living Waters begin to trickle into that harsh, endless desert to the precious people who desperately needed its life-giving water of life. And when my personal world was shaken in surging waves and after-shocks, that River carried me gently in safety to quiet shores with His Arms of Love surrounding me.

There IS a River whose streams bring Joy. That is a Promise.

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Reaching the Limit

“And when I saw Him,
I fell at His feet
as dead.

Then He laid His right Hand on me
And said ‘Don’t be afraid.

I Am…’”
Revelation1:17

When was the last time that you felt you had “reached your limit” with the realities of
your life? A “personal crisis” has shaken your world . . . you had not expected “it” . . .
you were not prepared . . . But, ready or not, something has disrupted your life in a way
that has left you grappling with a sense of loss, confusion, pain, hurt . . . anger.

The Bible is filled with stories of people who experienced all of the realities that have
touched our own lives and families, leaving us with the emotional, mental, and
relational struggles that are common to our world.

One of Jesus’ closest friends, John, had followed, lived, and walked with Jesus for the
past few years. He had seen Jesus crucified. Dead. In a tomb. But John had also
seen the tomb empty, and Jesus alive.

How do we humanly process those times in our lives when nothing makes sense. . . we
are rocked . . . stunned . . . devastated . . . and the flood of emotions tied to life’s crisis
shakes us to our core. Despite knowing Truth, we are shaken. Doubt comes. Pain fills
our hearts. The future seems impossible to imagine. Life comes down to . . . “Breathe.”

John gives us a glimpse of his Moment, face to Face, with the One Who had changed
his life and eternal destiny. John’s hopelessness dissolved. Death became Life. . . the
impossible was no more. Jesus was alive. He laid His right hand on John, and spoke
Words of compassion and a Reality that continues to echo into our own hearts today, no
matter what we are facing in life…

“I Am.”

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Trusting God with Your Child’s Future Mate

“God will send His angel ahead of you,
And you will get my son a wife from there.”
Genesis 24:7

It’s scary when our kids reach an age of hormones and butterflies.  We are brought back to our own youthful season of awakening desires and the “yuckiness” of their previous aversion to the opposite sex becomes a thing of the past.  

Abraham knew that his son was reaching that point, and that they were in a land inhabited by people who had no consciousness of the True Creator-God that Abraham’s family worshiped.  Where was he going to ever find a young lady “good enough” for his precious son Isaac!

Abraham went to God with his quandary.  And God was faithful, as always.

Although Abraham’s family was in a “world” that did not have the Truth or connection with the God of Abraham,  Creator God was looking at the heart of a young woman to bring into their little family.  Abraham could have taken things into his own hands, but his Journey with God was proving again and again that God Knows . . . He is Able . . . His Ways are best.  Finding a young woman of virtue and character in that world was highly unlikely.  But “unlikely” is when God does some of His finest work.

It would require that Abraham be “hands-off” in finding his son a wife in their very un-Godly environment.  But unlike us, God sees the heart, knows the story, sees the future, and knows the Path that will lead to fulfilling His Purposes in this world.  

Even when it seems highly unlikely that He can really do that.

Abraham chose to put his trust in his servant.  As he had instructed, Abraham’s servant went to the land of his master’s birth, and the God of Abraham guided him to the woman who God had chosen for the beloved son.  

Sometimes God chooses to use people in our children’s lives to bring about His Purposes for them.  Trusting The Father of All Fathers is always best.

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A Lesson from a Grape

“Remain in me, as I also remain in you. 
No branch can bear fruit by itself; it must remain in the vine. 
Neither can you bear fruit unless you remain in me.”
John 15:4

Today I have been contemplating grapes.   There is a cluster of them on my kitchen counter.

But they don’t look like they did a week ago.  They still look like grapes, but not quite as plump as they looked the day I put them on my counter.   They are still attached to their vine.  I pulled one off and popped it in my mouth.  It still tasted good, but it wasn’t nearly as juicy and yummy as the cluster of grapes tasted fresh from the market last week.  

It got me thinking…

The cluster of grapes were still on the branch, but the fruit  was no longer attached to the vine upon which it had grown.  It had been separated from the vine when it had been ripe enough to be sent to the market.  Now, on my counter, the small cluster of grapes, though still attached to their original little branch,  were losing their plumpness.  The little segment of vine had become brittle as its fruit had used up all that the little vine branch had provided for the grapes.   Though separated from the vine, their little, dried up branch to which the grapes still clung had used up all the “life”  it had stored up while attached to  the vine.  

Jesus is the Vine to whom we, His followers, are attached.  We are the “Fruit”  . . . the result of having begun our lives from the Vine.  Remaining firmly attached to our Vine, we grow, ripen, and become a source of delight to our world.  We provide nourishment, drink of refreshment, a pop of flavor, and, even when we reach the stage of “drying up” . . . becoming a sweet little raisin treat that young and old alike can enjoy . . .  even if a little “shriveled.”

Unlike the natural vines in our world, our Vine will never shrivel.  Never Die.  Whatever “branch” to which we were originally attached, our Tree of Life has provided the on-going nourishment to sustain our lives and grow . . . and produce the Fruit of our Tree from which we grew.   The Fruit of our lives is intended for the nourishment, enjoyment, pop of flavor, and a sweet refreshment  for our world.  Enjoy being a grape!

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God is at Work – Whether We See It or Not

“The Official said to Him, 
‘Sir, come with me before my little boy dies.’
Jesus told him,
‘Go home.
Your son will live.’
The man believed what Jesus told him 
and left.”
John 4:49-54

Jesus was in Cana (region of Galilee).  It was a frequent stopping point for Jesus as He

traveled through the Land of the people of Israel, whom God had assigned to carry out His Purposes in His world.   Jesus had just been in Samaria, doing His “cross-cultural” Work among the Samaritan people of  “Arab” descent.  But Galilee / Cana was “home.”  

This Roman official, posted there to oversee Rome’s control in that region, would have been well aware of Jesus’ movements in this man’s assigned official oversight.  He carried the authority of the Empire that now controlled the Land of Israel . . . God’s Land.

But the Official was a daddy.  He had a son . . . the son who would carry out his family name and follow in his father’s footsteps some day.   His son, who enjoyed the privilege of his father’s status and the benefits of being a Roman citizen, was dying.  All of the power, strength, and standing this daddy carried could not save his precious boy.  His ‘gods’ were not doing anything to help him.  They were proving to have no power to help this father who was in official service to the mighty Roman Empire. In his deepest personal crisis, his ‘gods’ were proving themselves as powerless.

In his desperation, he could have used his power and authority to order Jesus to do his bidding. . . go to his dying son.  But, despite this official’s position and status, Jesus’ Words moved him to obey this One that he had been watching from a distance as a part of his job.  His heart and soul longed for a Power that Rome could not provide. . . his gods could not accomplish. . . his position could not make a reality. 

He had seen enough of this One to feel compelled to ask for His Help.  He was not a Follower . . . yet.  But in his Moment, his desperate heart was known to God, and Jesus brought Truth to this hurting father’s heart, as well as Life to his precious son.

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